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It sounds to me like there are a LOT more issues that just a work at home job for your husband. In fact it sounds like no job at all to me and you are rightfully frustrated and upset. I would say it is time for some professional help of some sort for the two of you so you can learn to communicate and have a successful relationship.
You might want to google Non-Violent Communication and learn the basic process. It can really facilitate a heart-to-heart talk about needs — his and yours.
This sounds tough, and I wish you well. You've got a couple of issues going on and I can't address them all. My husband was laid off in March and, fortunately, got some contract work, some of which is working from home.
I, personally, hate when he works from home. Our house is so small that it seems as if we have to adjust our behavior for him. Not be too noisy, etc. What I really hate is when he offers suggestions about how I can be more efficient. It's also hard for me to accept that he's working and completely unavailable to us while he's there. I understand how you feel but can't offer any help. It's not your decision, and you cannot change him. All you have control over is yourself.
How will you deal with it? How will you feel? How will you spend your time and your life? Will you waste time and energy being upset and unhappy? Decide how you feel about this situation and act on that. If he keeps her up till all hours, and she gets cranky and tired, be out of the house during this time and make him deal with the consequences.
When he moans and cries about it, point out that it is his fault. Are you genuinely unhappy about doing all the cooking, cleaning, and money making? I personally wouldn't want my DH doing 2 of those things as he sucks at it Then stop doing it. Lifes too short to have one that you dont like You need to tell him straight up "if you're going to work from home, then you need to WORK from home! You chose to do this without discussin it with me.
I'm expecting it is not going to hinder our finances, correct? If you are not busy at times, then I expect your help with OUR family! Our daughter is on a specific schedule; she goes to bed at 0: We decided I would be a stay-at-home mom and that we would work outside the home to support our family. If something changes, both of us will decide that not just one!! Mom I would be pretty concerned too if my husband did not discuss his plans to change to wrkg in an office to working out of the home prior to making this life changing decision.
Have you sat down and told him of your concern abnd explained in the future you expect him to talk to you B4 making such an important family decision. Also let him know that although you enjoy him being at home more this new arrangement may not be the best choice for the family since there are so many distractions for him to work.
I would bring this up to him in a calm, collected way and give you both a week to think about what you discussed and his reaction. If you can see that he is not truly working after a full work week, I would tell him that you and he need to re-evaluate the working at home situation asap. It has to be hard to do unless he is a very focused and dedicated person;having his wife, kids and all of the distractions of being at home must be a challenge for him to find enough time to devote to his job.
I am curious, how old is your husband? It sounds like he may be younger and a little impulsive. Also if you can see he is not getting a lot of "real work" for his job I would not hesitate to deligate some of your Mom chores and responsibilities to him.
I would wait a week so he sees how much you do at home in a week then after talking to him about this you and he can sit dwon break down by making a list what you will continue to do around the house and what he can do now to help going forward. This may get him bk to the office sooner than you imagine: D Finally, as for disrupting the toddler's sleep schedule and bed time, I would not let this happen.
Dad needs to stick to the schedule that the toddler had b4 and tell him this is something you feel strongly about, babies and young, expaling nicely that children need routine and so dones Mom. As you know Mom there are few things harder to deal with than a cranky, sleepy on top of all of your other responsibilities Mom. Hang in there and good luck Mom. I am not sure that the problem is him working from home here. It's irresponsible of him to just switch jobs one day without telling you.
So I think that is something you will need to address for the long term health of your marriage. BUT if this is what he's going to do Speaking from personal experience here He should have a desk or designated area where he works. He should also establish regular working hours, so that you know when he's "on" and "off" and might be available to help you.
When he's "on the clock" he should be in his working area and you should leave him alone. The kids should be clear that dad is not available when he's working and HE should enforce that by working and not interacting with them over much. He's the one who should be setting these boundaries for himself.
You should not have to do this for him. That's why I think you guys have some bigger issues to deal with. I wish you a lot of luck and lots of patience. The instability would drive me nuts. I know that for me a steady income is very important and I could not handle my partner putting us in financial risk, So if I were in your position I would get a very good full time job.
That may mean going back to school and getting a degree in a field that you are not in now. LPNs and 2 year RN degrees as well as radioloy degrees, the techs who run the various x-ray machines are good jobs anyway, I would look into a stable career and then I would train for it. Your husband can take care of the kids while you are in school. From what you have said this is a pattern and is not going to get better. You have to be the one the family can depend on because you cannot change another person.
I would stay in the marriage at least until you have a good stable job. Did you find out if he was fired from his old job and that's why this "miracle situation" came up?
Maybe that is why he didn't bother to discuss such a family important decision with you? I know many that work from home my own children being 2 and I often go to watch the children while theyare on conferance calls or at the computer but they are actually working 8 hour days or longer. They also only work from home days a week depending on the situation. If this is one of those commisson jobs then he'd better hussle or he'll miss the boat.
I hope he grows up before you loose entire respect since you are working and carrig the household load. Try and give him a list of things that he can get done while he is between phone calls-- heck he can do alot of laundry and putting it away between calls! I have a friend whose husband did this to the point of divorce, the councilor gave them this advice to try she said to pass it to you. THAT is drastic but it worked for them becasue she found her sanity was more important than the stress he caused.
Eventually they got it worked out but the hard part of it was keeping him focused. I can only wish you well and hope that you find a way to get out ofthe position of the Boss. I would try to go to park or friends houses to get out. My husband still does NOT get the bedtime thing. I try to be consistent with bedtime especially when school is in session.
Most men don't get the work involved in staying home keeping the house clean and entertaining the kids. This might not help but I wish my husband was home more often. I feel like we rarely see him. When he makes an appearance for dinner the kids and I are so excited he is joining us to eat.
My husband works long hours many nights he doesn't get home until 11 pm. We have three kids. I am not sure what frustrates you more: As for the work at home, have been working from home for the last years, and my husband in and out for even longer.
During the 2ne year of our son, I worked only part time because I had to take care of him, of the house Now, I am back to work full time from home. This means I am at my desk from 8 to 5, in an office with a closed door used to be a closet! I am full time busy working.
And when my husband works from home, he is also full time busy working. None of us can "Fold the laundry between phone calls". Both our jobs are behind a desk but not really at the phone. You have to agree with your husband if he is serious about working from home that he should not be disturbed and should not disturb you and your existing routines.
He should be working in his own room, not with a desk in the middle of the family room with the toys and TV. Working from home is hard as opportunities for procrastination and distraction are all around. It doesn't seem that his first day has been very productive, as he was playing with your son.
Share your concerns with him. So far he has said oh no way and stuck with his job that provides reliable, steady income. So, just make your problem his. When someone else tackles the hard jobs without complaint, people don't know how truly difficult it is! Let him see the light! Sounds like you need to sit down and have a serious conversation about the situation of things I keep wondering where the breakdown in communication in marriages has gone.
My husband and I talk about everything. If your husband is going to be home and not working constantly for 8 hours, then he needs to chip in during the day with the housework, kids and cooking.
I think a lot of men still think that the woman is suppose to do everything and not them. Everyone who lives in a house should be helping out. Does he have a separate room he can shut himself in for working? It's not like any employer would have a roam-as-you-please environment. My hubby knows better than to disrupt sleep schedules - even to the point of taking conference calls in the car in the garage. The WiFi works in the backyard too you get the idea. If he's having trouble keeping quiet during naptime you put the kids down for their naps and then take a few hours for yourself away from the house You have to leave it at work.
While some employers have policies against dating a co-worker or hiring a relative of an existing employee, most of the companies with policies simply restrict relatives from working in a direct reporting relationship. Working at the same level — or in a different department — as your spouse is generally fair game.
The pair, who met at work in and married in the District of Columbia a year ago, eat lunch together every day and commute together at least a couple of days a week. That may mean having offices on opposite sides of the building and lunch together once a week, rather than back to back and daily. And just as you leave the intimate side of your relationship at home, leave work debates at work — and personal arguments at home.
Kaneda could never handle reporting to her husband — or vice versa — so they are co-principals with distinct bailiwicks. If you work for an employer that allows spouses to report to one another, be sensitive to whether co-workers might resent any promotions or special treatment.
Of course, there are some factors simply beyond your control. One downside of working with your spouse is that all your eggs are in one basket. For the Kanedas, that means when business is slow, both of them suffer a drop in income. While the wife kept her job at the same company, her feelings about the employer changed.
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